Thoughts of A Female
Sunday, November 12, 2006
The Need of a Girl ..!
Most of the girls need this ring to feel safe. It is hard now to bein a relationship without thinking about the end. Because most of the Kuwaity men do not believe in the friendship between the two different genders, the first thing that pop to the mind of the girl when she is in a relationship is marriage. She plans for this, she goes to places where guys hang out bla bla bla and do stuff just to attract their attentions.STOP ....................!
Don't be so happy men, it doesn't mean that i am against women, This is the way they think, men should blame themselves. When a man start a relationship he should put boundaries since the beginning of the relationship. Don't live a dream and make the girl live it with you, and when you both wake up, you realize that it was nothing. It was all a world filled with words and dreams and pictures, and nothing more ...!! A man should tell the girl from the beginning that he is not a married type. For me, I won't be in a relationship with a man who doesn't want to get marry one day, although the marriage issue is not that important to me.
For myself, I agree with both sides. I do respect the man who tell me from the beginning of the relationship that he wants friendship and nothing more. But, I hate it when the man say that "oh i don't know let us just be together and time will decide what kind of relationship we will have" ! Come on ..! its either you agree or disagree with being a friend!! Am I right or Wrong..?!!!!
All I want from the man is RESPECT, Is this hard these days?!!
For myself, I agree with both sides. I do respect the man who tell me from the beginning of the relationship that he wants friendship and nothing more. But, I hate it when the man say that "oh i don't know let us just be together and time will decide what kind of relationship we will have" ! Come on ..! its either you agree or disagree with being a friend!! Am I right or Wrong..?!!!!
All I want from the man is RESPECT, Is this hard these days?!!
6 Comments:
I agree with u to some extent.
Some times a person, cannot tell you what they want, untill they get to know you.
Since they have nothing to base their decision on.
although the marriage issue is not that important to me.
هذي مشكله!
اعتقد مشكله نفسيه وعميقه والاقيها اب بنات وايد
تدرين شنو المشكله؟
انا كلكم تدعون ان الزواج مايهمكم وكلكم ماشاء الله عليكم ماتبون اتزوجون
انا ملاحظ هالعقد اب كثير من البلوقرز-البنات!
اسم مشكلتج النفسيه اذا حبيتي ادورين عنها بعلم النفس:
Denial
وهي جزء من الحيل العقليه الي تكلم عنها فرويد:
defense mechanism
You are soo right
That is sooo true bes fiii waiiid glitches ib our post you went against yourself there... china eshwaya fii tanaqoo`6....
i mean girls do think of marriage all the time and my friend thats what they should do thats the right thing to think of .... mo bes relationship balla hadaaaf.
oo ili you said about the guys thats 60% true thats what they most ly end up saying.. magoool ilAh
"aLLAH KaReeem"
YOUR* post . lol. mind that
miyafushi:Thanx for ur comment and this post was about different thoughts girls have in general.
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anonymous:i didnt say i dont want to get married and am not denying that.The thoughts in this post were about different girls.I am only one girl with one heart and one mind, and if you notice my dear there are lots of thoughts here.By the way, i know what's the meaning of Denial and i dont have this problem :)O by the way, dont u guys suffer from the Denial?! The girl knows better about herself sweety
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blue dress:thanx for ur comment dear and like i said to anonymous i am representing different thoughts for different girls.I am a girl who thinks about marriage all the time, but what's more important to me is the respect matter, and most of the guys are the ones who deny themselves.
It never occured to me to have boundaries in a non-marital relationship. But I definitely like the idea. Why haven't I thought of it before? Maybe its because we are not married and I can't limit her to things untill i have the right to. So thats why sometimes women bore me, because there are no boundaries!! ee walla.
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