Thoughts of A Female

This post is directed to girls only. i read a book called " Why men love bitches". The author talked about two kind of girls, doormat and a dreamgirl. You know girls we should ask ourselves, who we r? then who we want to be?
The doormat girl is like a slave for a man. She is the nice girl who is available all the time, while the dreamgirl is the 'bitch'. She is nice but she is tough. She is sexy but she is not available all the time. She has a future, plans,friends and many other things to do than being with her man. The dreamgirl if the kind of the girl that all men want. She is not annoying,sweet and helpful but in a way that never occur to men that shows how nice she is. Simply, she is living her life with and without her men.
The question now "who we are?" Are we doormat girls or dreamgirls? and if we are a doormat .. how could we change ourselves to dreamgirls? A simple answer to all these thoughts is live ur life girls, have plans, go out with friends, set with family, just have fun by urself. Girls, you dont need men to have fun. We need men to have more fun, to fall in love, to feel ourselves but that does not mean that we loose our appetite for life. This is what a doormat do, live her whole life for a man and forget everything else and everybody. She gave up on her friends and her family.
Go girls and live ur life and when Mr.Right appears in ur life dont loose him and be a doormat .. Be his dreamgirl :)