Thoughts of A Female

Sunday, February 04, 2007

Mr/Ms.Perfect & Mr/Ms. Right

We always look for the perfection in our life without thinking about this kind of perfection, is it right or wrong in our life?! Yeah, the word perfect is different than right and we have to look for the right things in our life especially in relationships because pefection is for God only.


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Mr.Perfect .. -------------------------------------------------------->
He is Mr.Perfect difintely! ;)
(Note: I am talking in general and not specifcally about George Cooleny:P)
He got the look, the money, A smooth way of talking and many other things which i don't know about ;)
But ...! Is he the right person for me?! Is he going to make me happy?! Is he the ONE?! The ONE means the person who will give make me smile all the time and never let a tear drop on my cheecks.
I'll give you an example about myself ..
I was in a relationship where i thought that he was the ONE, where I thought that he was Mr.Perfect and I didn't think or ask myself Is he right for me?! I even wrote his name in my mobile contacts as the ONE ..!! At the end he turned not to be the ONE at all ..!!!!!
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Mr. Right .. ------------------------------------------------------------------------> ???????
Yeah, Mr. Right has no picture. Because you are looking for the right characteristics and not the look. You are looking for someone to make you smile. You are looking for someone who knows Allah in treating a lady. With Mr. Right you are not looking for money or car or shopping bags. With Mr. Right, you are looking for happiness, the eternal kind of happiness and not a temporary stage of it ..!!
This was my opinion about Mr.Perfect & Mr.Right ... and I don't know about Ms.Perfect & Ms. Right because it is a guy situation and i dont know what guys think about their MSs.Perfect & Right :)
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According to Longman, language Activator dictionary:
Right means suitable which means in turn two people are made for each other because they agree about most things.
While ...
perfect means that this someone is exactly what we want or what we need; in other words he is Ideal. And difintely not all what we want or need is right for us ! :)
Am i right? :)
Note: Thank you my dear and best friend who once inspired me with the difference of these two words and I still have it in my mind because of your sweet and tendreness words :)
posted by DaNDoOoSha at Sunday, February 04, 2007

8 Comments:

Typically !! TOtally TRUE !!
u hit the goal by ur words and ur comparative way..

Mr/Ms.Right could be Perfect by their souls .. ..
but Mr/Ms. Perfect couldn't be RIGHT cuz difinitley they haven't got the Right manners or soul !! :)

o0 allah e3awthich khair enshallah :D .. if this is the way u think, fa ana metfa2la ena u'll find ur Right match SOON ENSHALLAH :) ..

8:43 PM  

you're always the first to comment on any post and most probably for everyone ;) .. well, i didnt know what i wrote to be honest but the experiences taught me what i wrote plus the experiences of my friends and my family :) o ENSHA2 ALLAH I will find Mr.Right and so do u ;)

11:07 PM  

i dont think neither exist... :(

11:55 PM  

hehehe, yeah i may be the first to comment and being care to be the first only in blog's which i feel Attached to ;) ..

Yeeeah here is the hint .. experiences are always the best lessons for us ..
actually it gaves us the final exam's result before explaining the whole subject's lessons .. :)

Enshallah u will enshallah i'll ask GOD For this by ALL MY HEART !! from the bottom of my heart !!!!!! :D ..

12:47 AM  

breeze
3asa allah yewafegna ajma3een 7abeebty :)

peony
don't u ever loose the hope. Perfection may not exist but the right person is there for u, me, him and her :) life is a basket of hopes and when the basket is empty u can refill it again and again because either u love roses or u r hungry ;) and when u dont refill it u won't live as u suppose to :) so be OPTIMISTIC

1:17 AM  

No need to thank me ;) you know me dear... I share every thought with you cuz you're not only a best friend but a real one too.

I talked to you before about this subject but you wrote it down in an amazing way.

Mr.Right exists somewhere.. I won't look for him. he will come by himself and i will know that he's the one.

cuz in my opinion when i look for him i will look for perfection .. so its better to meet him in unexpected way and time... :D

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bon voyage... I'll miss you :)

1:10 PM  

bon voyage .. ??

Dandoosha traveled ? ..

Miss You girl !

2:19 PM  

wild_mare
3ala 6ool u knew urself, sej la galaw elgloob showahed :P

breeze
yeah I have been in Cairo with mum and here i am back .. by the way i missed u too :)

12:17 PM  

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